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On with the email - I recently attended an in-person retreat type thing hosted by the Art of Accomplishment team. And while I was there, I came across one of the happiest-seeming people I’ve ever met. Let’s call her Jane.
Jane had a smile on her face pretty much 24/7. She was always the first to burst out laughing when anything funny happened, or anytime someone told a joke, and she’d laugh borderline-hysterically for longer than anyone else did too, often with tears streaming down her face. Her laughter and enthusiasm was so infectious that our group would often end up laughing for 2-3 times longer than would be reasonably warranted by the joke or situation. And we all had a great time.
Towards the end of the retreat, I asked Jane what her secret was. This is how the convo went.
Me: Jane… you’re like the happiest person I’ve ever seen. Have you always been like this? Or is it a recent thing?
Jane: Oh haha it’s totally a recent thing. I wasn’t a very “happy” person for most of my life, but for the last 2 years, I’ve become one of the happiest people I know.
Me: Sick - what changed 2 years ago? Was it a sudden thing or a slow process?
Jane: Pretty slow process. But 2 years ago I decided to incorporate two specific things into my life: one’s a principle, and the other’s a practice.
Me: Okay… what’s the principle and what’s the practice?
Jane: The principle is “No Pleasure Left Behind”.
Me: … what do you mean?
Jane: Exactly that. No pleasure left behind. It means that whatever’s happening in my life, I’ve try and make sure to extract the maximum possible pleasure from it. In other words, “No Pleasure Left Behind”. So like, if I’m driving somewhere, when my mind starts to wander, I’ve sort-of trained myself to think: “What would make this moment even more pleasurable?” So if I’m driving for example, I’ll suddenly feel my body a bit more, relax my legs, take in the scenery around me, notice how pretty everything looks, notice that my body and mind are healthy, notice that the music’s pretty awesome, jiggle around with it a little while driving. And all that’s really nice, and way more pleasurable than letting my mind wander and worry about the admin that’s piling up at home, or the various things going wrong with the business.
Me: Huh… okay, so you just sort-of “remind yourself” to notice those things?
Jane: Yeah pretty much. I literally think: “My principle is No Pleasure Left Behind, so what would it look like to maximise my pleasure in this moment?”. And then I find all sorts of things that I wasn’t paying attention to previously.
Me: Do you ever forget to do that? How do you remind yourself?
Jane: 2 years ago, I used to forget a LOT. I’d only remember to ask the question maybe like once a week. But over time, as I did it more and more, it sort-of became almost second nature. Now I remember to ask it more often than not. Of course, there are still times, particularly when I’m stressed or tired, where it’s easy for my mind to wander and I forget the principle. But for the most part, I remember to do it, and so I naturally notice way happier things than maybe other people do.
Me: That’s super interesting… okay I’m going to try this! You mentioned there was a practice too?
Jane: Yeah, so “No Pleasure Left Behind” is a principle that I like to live my day-to-day by. But I also started doing a Gratitude Practice multiple times a day, around 2 years ago, and that’s been absolutely life-changing.
Me: Gratitude practice? Like, gratitude journaling or something?
Jane: Way better than that. 2 years ago, when I did the first Art of Accomplishment course, I joined a WhatsApp group with other course participants from all around the world. And to this day, multiple times a day, me or someone else will message in the group saying: “Anyone want to do 5 minutes of gratitude?” And then we’ll get on a Zoom call, sometimes with just 2 people, sometimes with 5, and we’ll spend 5 minutes going around and saying things we’re grateful for.
Me: Whoah… how often do you do this?
Jane: Oh like 3-5 ish times a day.
Me: WHAT? 3-5 times a day??! You’re saying that like 3-5 times a DAY, you join a Zoom call with a couple of strangers around the world, and you spend 5 minutes just listing out what y’all are grateful for?
Jane: Exactly. I know, it sounds weird, I thought it was weird when I first started doing it. But from literally the first session, I realised I was WAY happier for hours afterwards… so then I started doing it twice a day, then 3 times a day, and now I try and do it 5 times a day. It’s the best thing ever.
Me: Damn…
The retreat where I met Jane was a few months ago, and I still keep on meaning to remind myself to do more of this “No Pleasure Left Behind” and Gratitude stuff…
I’d love to know from you - what’s a simple practice you’ve got in your life that you find really boosts your day-to-day happiness?
Have a great week!
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ali@aliabdaal.com5/25/2026
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On with the email - I recently attended an in-person retreat type thing hosted by the Art of Accomplishment team. And while I was there, I came across one of the happiest-seeming people I’ve ever met. Let’s call her Jane.
Jane had a smile on her face pretty much 24/7. She was always the first to burst out laughing when anything funny happened, or anytime someone told a joke, and she’d laugh borderline-hysterically for longer than anyone else did too, often with tears streaming down her face. Her laughter and enthusiasm was so infectious that our group would often end up laughing for 2-3 times longer than would be reasonably warranted by the joke or situation. And we all had a great time.
Towards the end of the retreat, I asked Jane what her secret was. This is how the convo went.
Me: Jane… you’re like the happiest person I’ve ever seen. Have you always been like this? Or is it a recent thing?
Jane: Oh haha it’s totally a recent thing. I wasn’t a very “happy” person for most of my life, but for the last 2 years, I’ve become one of the happiest people I know.
Me: Sick - what changed 2 years ago? Was it a sudden thing or a slow process?
Jane: Pretty slow process. But 2 years ago I decided to incorporate two specific things into my life: one’s a principle, and the other’s a practice.
Me: Okay… what’s the principle and what’s the practice?
Jane: The principle is “No Pleasure Left Behind”.
Me: … what do you mean?
Jane: Exactly that. No pleasure left behind. It means that whatever’s happening in my life, I’ve try and make sure to extract the maximum possible pleasure from it. In other words, “No Pleasure Left Behind”. So like, if I’m driving somewhere, when my mind starts to wander, I’ve sort-of trained myself to think: “What would make this moment even more pleasurable?” So if I’m driving for example, I’ll suddenly feel my body a bit more, relax my legs, take in the scenery around me, notice how pretty everything looks, notice that my body and mind are healthy, notice that the music’s pretty awesome, jiggle around with it a little while driving. And all that’s really nice, and way more pleasurable than letting my mind wander and worry about the admin that’s piling up at home, or the various things going wrong with the business.
Me: Huh… okay, so you just sort-of “remind yourself” to notice those things?
Jane: Yeah pretty much. I literally think: “My principle is No Pleasure Left Behind, so what would it look like to maximise my pleasure in this moment?”. And then I find all sorts of things that I wasn’t paying attention to previously.
Me: Do you ever forget to do that? How do you remind yourself?
Jane: 2 years ago, I used to forget a LOT. I’d only remember to ask the question maybe like once a week. But over time, as I did it more and more, it sort-of became almost second nature. Now I remember to ask it more often than not. Of course, there are still times, particularly when I’m stressed or tired, where it’s easy for my mind to wander and I forget the principle. But for the most part, I remember to do it, and so I naturally notice way happier things than maybe other people do.
Me: That’s super interesting… okay I’m going to try this! You mentioned there was a practice too?
Jane: Yeah, so “No Pleasure Left Behind” is a principle that I like to live my day-to-day by. But I also started doing a Gratitude Practice multiple times a day, around 2 years ago, and that’s been absolutely life-changing.
Me: Gratitude practice? Like, gratitude journaling or something?
Jane: Way better than that. 2 years ago, when I did the first Art of Accomplishment course, I joined a WhatsApp group with other course participants from all around the world. And to this day, multiple times a day, me or someone else will message in the group saying: “Anyone want to do 5 minutes of gratitude?” And then we’ll get on a Zoom call, sometimes with just 2 people, sometimes with 5, and we’ll spend 5 minutes going around and saying things we’re grateful for.
Me: Whoah… how often do you do this?
Jane: Oh like 3-5 ish times a day.
Me: WHAT? 3-5 times a day??! You’re saying that like 3-5 times a DAY, you join a Zoom call with a couple of strangers around the world, and you spend 5 minutes just listing out what y’all are grateful for?
Jane: Exactly. I know, it sounds weird, I thought it was weird when I first started doing it. But from literally the first session, I realised I was WAY happier for hours afterwards… so then I started doing it twice a day, then 3 times a day, and now I try and do it 5 times a day. It’s the best thing ever.
Me: Damn…
The retreat where I met Jane was a few months ago, and I still keep on meaning to remind myself to do more of this “No Pleasure Left Behind” and Gratitude stuff…
I’d love to know from you - what’s a simple practice you’ve got in your life that you find really boosts your day-to-day happiness?
Have a great week!
Ali xx
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The happiest person I’ve ever met...
ali@aliabdaal.com5/24/2026
Hey friends,
Quick thing before we start: we’ve just opened up places to join the next cohort of the Lifestyle Business Academy ( https://844e968a.click.kit-mail3.com/92ulx5xgq2fnh6mvglzt9hzqk47d0bwhz0g26/reh8h9umr727w4s6/aHR0cHM6Ly9saWZlc3R5bGVidXNpbmVzcy5jb20vYWNhZGVteS8_dXRtX3NvdXJjZT1uZXdzbGV0dGVyJnV0bV9tZWRpdW09ZW1haWwmdXRtX2NhbXBhaWduPWV2ZXJncmVlbiZ1dG1fY29udGVudD10aW1lZnJhbWVzXzE3 ) - our flagship business programme helping you build a six-figure lifestyle business that gives you financial, time and creative freedom. Places are limited but if you’re interested in joining, you can get more info and submit an application here ( https://844e968a.click.kit-mail3.com/92ulx5xgq2fnh6mvglzt9hzqk47d0bwhz0g26/reh8h9umr727w4s6/aHR0cHM6Ly9saWZlc3R5bGVidXNpbmVzcy5jb20vYWNhZGVteS8_dXRtX3NvdXJjZT1uZXdzbGV0dGVyJnV0bV9tZWRpdW09ZW1haWwmdXRtX2NhbXBhaWduPWV2ZXJncmVlbiZ1dG1fY29udGVudD10aW1lZnJhbWVzXzE3 ).
Anyway, on with the newsletter and I wanted to use today to talk about an interesting insight that I took from an entrepreneur event thing that Izzy and I attended a few weeks ago.
We hung out with a husband/wife combo who run a sex toy business. Yep, not kidding. Not sure I should even mention that in this email… is this more likely to end up in spam because of it? Who knows. But anyway - yeah they manufacture and sell sex toys online. Customers (apparently) love the product, and the company’s doing super well. But, I overheard the guy make a casual comment when talking over dinner. He said something like: “Yeah we’ve only been going for 3 years, so obviously there’s loads more work to do to improve the brand”.
Later on, there was a talk by a big investor guy who’s a bajillionaire or something. He was talking about his fund’s investment strategy - they apparently manage tens of billions of dollars of capital. When talking about one of the companies they invest in, he casually threw out: “oh yeah we only invested in those guys 15 years ago, so we’re not making any changes to our position just yet”.
And then a few weeks ago, we were in Australia for another entrepreneur event. I was chatting to someone who’s business is also mega successful, who said something like: “Oh yeah we’ve only been doing YouTube seriously for 2 years, so obviously there’s still plenty of room for improvement”.
These kinds of timeframes are nothing special in entrepreneur land - well, except maybe the 15 year one, everyone was surprised by that. But the “oh it’s only been 2/3/5 years” is fairly common thinking amongst business owners.
I’m mentioning it here because it’s NOT particularly common thinking amongst most beginners wanting to START a business (which according to our surveys is around 80% of y’all reading this email).
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Tbh some of our own videos have probably contributed. We featured a case study of my friend Suhail who quit his job and then built his software to $1m/year in recurring revenue within 2 years… this is a very ABNORMAL result, which is precisely why I did the video with him… and it’s not that interesting to do a video with someone who’s 2y into the journey and struggling to make it… but this inherent survivor / publication bias gives people the wrong idea of timelines… maybe we should do some more videos with entrepreneurs who are in the grind stage, who are actually struggling to make it. That could be fun.
Reminds me of the quote from Marques Brownlee’s interview on the YCombinator podcast many years ago. When asked: “What’s the secret to your success on YouTube” he replied with something like “well… when you stick with something for 10+ years, it’s kinda hard to NOT be successful at it”.
I remember hearing this a couple of years into my own YouTube journey and being mega inspired to continue for at least a decade. So far, we’re coming up to (only) 9 years since I started making YouTube videos in my university dorm room giving advice to medical students. Planning to continue for at least another decade :)
Maybe this email is getting overly quotey but I also just finished listening to a 3h-long podcast between Naval Ravikant and Eric Jorgensen. Naval quipped something towards the end:
“obviously all the best things in life come from compounding returns, so the trick is to JUST NOT QUIT - find the thing you enjoy so much that it looks like work to others but feels like play to you, that’s the secret to sustaining it”.
Yeah I know, cliche advice, but always a useful reminder. I found myself nodding along vigorously before looking around to make sure I wasn’t being weird in public.
Anyway, all these quotes from people IRL, people in podcasts, and people in YouTube videos, have reminded me recently that we’re playing the long game.
Maybe this reminder helps you too :)
Have a great week!
Ali xx
P.S - talked a bit about YouTube in this issue so just wanted to add that if you’re interested in starting or scaling your channel, we’ve got an offer on the Part-Time YouTuber Academy ( https://844e968a.click.kit-mail3.com/92ulx5xgq2fnh6mvglzt9hzqk47d0bwhz0g26/8ghqh3uov303qntl/aHR0cHM6Ly9saWZlc3R5bGVidXNpbmVzcy5jb20vcGFydC10aW1lLXlvdXR1YmVyLWFjYWRlbXkvP3V0bV9zb3VyY2U9bmV3c2xldHRlciZ1dG1fbWVkaXVtPWVtYWlsJnV0bV9jYW1wYWlnbj1jdzI2JnV0bV9jb250ZW50PXRpbWVmcmFtZXNfMTc= ) ending tomorrow (Monday) - more info here ( https://844e968a.click.kit-mail3.com/92ulx5xgq2fnh6mvglzt9hzqk47d0bwhz0g26/8ghqh3uov303qntl/aHR0cHM6Ly9saWZlc3R5bGVidXNpbmVzcy5jb20vcGFydC10aW1lLXlvdXR1YmVyLWFjYWRlbXkvP3V0bV9zb3VyY2U9bmV3c2xldHRlciZ1dG1fbWVkaXVtPWVtYWlsJnV0bV9jYW1wYWlnbj1jdzI2JnV0bV9jb250ZW50PXRpbWVmcmFtZXNfMTc= ).
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Re: A reminder about playing the long-game
ali@aliabdaal.com5/19/2026
Hey friends,
Quick thing before we start: we’ve just opened up places to join the next cohort of the Lifestyle Business Academy ( https://844e968a.click.kit-mail3.com/zlu5omow9qhnhkvx3r8fphwl6rev4f6h923k0/n2hohquvp8e84pu0/aHR0cHM6Ly9saWZlc3R5bGVidXNpbmVzcy5jb20vYWNhZGVteS8_dXRtX3NvdXJjZT1uZXdzbGV0dGVyJnV0bV9tZWRpdW09ZW1haWwmdXRtX2NhbXBhaWduPWV2ZXJncmVlbiZ1dG1fY29udGVudD10aW1lZnJhbWVzXzE3 ) - our flagship business programme helping you build a six-figure lifestyle business that gives you financial, time and creative freedom. Places are limited but if you’re interested in joining, you can get more info and submit an application here ( https://844e968a.click.kit-mail3.com/zlu5omow9qhnhkvx3r8fphwl6rev4f6h923k0/n2hohquvp8e84pu0/aHR0cHM6Ly9saWZlc3R5bGVidXNpbmVzcy5jb20vYWNhZGVteS8_dXRtX3NvdXJjZT1uZXdzbGV0dGVyJnV0bV9tZWRpdW09ZW1haWwmdXRtX2NhbXBhaWduPWV2ZXJncmVlbiZ1dG1fY29udGVudD10aW1lZnJhbWVzXzE3 ).
Anyway, on with the newsletter and I wanted to use today to talk about an interesting insight that I took from an entrepreneur event thing that Izzy and I attended a few weeks ago.
We hung out with a husband/wife combo who run a sex toy business. Yep, not kidding. Not sure I should even mention that in this email… is this more likely to end up in spam because of it? Who knows. But anyway - yeah they manufacture and sell sex toys online. Customers (apparently) love the product, and the company’s doing super well. But, I overheard the guy make a casual comment when talking over dinner. He said something like: “Yeah we’ve only been going for 3 years, so obviously there’s loads more work to do to improve the brand”.
Later on, there was a talk by a big investor guy who’s a bajillionaire or something. He was talking about his fund’s investment strategy - they apparently manage tens of billions of dollars of capital. When talking about one of the companies they invest in, he casually threw out: “oh yeah we only invested in those guys 15 years ago, so we’re not making any changes to our position just yet”.
And then a few weeks ago, we were in Australia for another entrepreneur event. I was chatting to someone who’s business is also mega successful, who said something like: “Oh yeah we’ve only been doing YouTube seriously for 2 years, so obviously there’s still plenty of room for improvement”.
These kinds of timeframes are nothing special in entrepreneur land - well, except maybe the 15 year one, everyone was surprised by that. But the “oh it’s only been 2/3/5 years” is fairly common thinking amongst business owners.
I’m mentioning it here because it’s NOT particularly common thinking amongst most beginners wanting to START a business (which according to our surveys is around 80% of y’all reading this email).
Amongst most of the students we coach in our YouTuber Academy ( https://844e968a.click.kit-mail3.com/zlu5omow9qhnhkvx3r8fphwl6rev4f6h923k0/48hvh7ume5k53dhq/aHR0cHM6Ly9saWZlc3R5bGVidXNpbmVzcy5jb20vcGFydC10aW1lLXlvdXR1YmVyLWFjYWRlbXkvP3V0bV9zb3VyY2U9bmV3c2xldHRlciZ1dG1fbWVkaXVtPWVtYWlsJnV0bV9jYW1wYWlnbj1jdzI2JnV0bV9jb250ZW50PXRpbWVmcmFtZXNfMTc= ) and also our Lifestyle Business Academy ( https://844e968a.click.kit-mail3.com/zlu5omow9qhnhkvx3r8fphwl6rev4f6h923k0/n2hohquvp8e84pu0/aHR0cHM6Ly9saWZlc3R5bGVidXNpbmVzcy5jb20vYWNhZGVteS8_dXRtX3NvdXJjZT1uZXdzbGV0dGVyJnV0bV9tZWRpdW09ZW1haWwmdXRtX2NhbXBhaWduPWV2ZXJncmVlbiZ1dG1fY29udGVudD10aW1lZnJhbWVzXzE3 ), hearing “oh yeah this might take years” often surprises people. It’s probably because the stuff you hear about starting a business or making money etc on YouTube is incentivised to sell “get as rich as possible in as short a time as possible”.
Tbh some of our own videos have probably contributed. We featured a case study of my friend Suhail who quit his job and then built his software to $1m/year in recurring revenue within 2 years… this is a very ABNORMAL result, which is precisely why I did the video with him… and it’s not that interesting to do a video with someone who’s 2y into the journey and struggling to make it… but this inherent survivor / publication bias gives people the wrong idea of timelines… maybe we should do some more videos with entrepreneurs who are in the grind stage, who are actually struggling to make it. That could be fun.
Reminds me of the quote from Marques Brownlee’s interview on the YCombinator podcast many years ago. When asked: “What’s the secret to your success on YouTube” he replied with something like “well… when you stick with something for 10+ years, it’s kinda hard to NOT be successful at it”.
I remember hearing this a couple of years into my own YouTube journey and being mega inspired to continue for at least a decade. So far, we’re coming up to (only) 9 years since I started making YouTube videos in my university dorm room giving advice to medical students. Planning to continue for at least another decade :)
Maybe this email is getting overly quotey but I also just finished listening to a 3h-long podcast between Naval Ravikant and Eric Jorgensen. Naval quipped something towards the end:
“obviously all the best things in life come from compounding returns, so the trick is to JUST NOT QUIT - find the thing you enjoy so much that it looks like work to others but feels like play to you, that’s the secret to sustaining it”.
Yeah I know, cliche advice, but always a useful reminder. I found myself nodding along vigorously before looking around to make sure I wasn’t being weird in public.
Anyway, all these quotes from people IRL, people in podcasts, and people in YouTube videos, have reminded me recently that we’re playing the long game.
Maybe this reminder helps you too :)
Have a great week!
Ali xx
P.S - talked a bit about YouTube in this issue so just wanted to add that if you’re interested in starting or scaling your channel, we’ve got an offer on the Part-Time YouTuber Academy ( https://844e968a.click.kit-mail3.com/zlu5omow9qhnhkvx3r8fphwl6rev4f6h923k0/48hvh7ume5k53dhq/aHR0cHM6Ly9saWZlc3R5bGVidXNpbmVzcy5jb20vcGFydC10aW1lLXlvdXR1YmVyLWFjYWRlbXkvP3V0bV9zb3VyY2U9bmV3c2xldHRlciZ1dG1fbWVkaXVtPWVtYWlsJnV0bV9jYW1wYWlnbj1jdzI2JnV0bV9jb250ZW50PXRpbWVmcmFtZXNfMTc= ) ending tomorrow (Monday) - more info here ( https://844e968a.click.kit-mail3.com/zlu5omow9qhnhkvx3r8fphwl6rev4f6h923k0/48hvh7ume5k53dhq/aHR0cHM6Ly9saWZlc3R5bGVidXNpbmVzcy5jb20vcGFydC10aW1lLXlvdXR1YmVyLWFjYWRlbXkvP3V0bV9zb3VyY2U9bmV3c2xldHRlciZ1dG1fbWVkaXVtPWVtYWlsJnV0bV9jYW1wYWlnbj1jdzI2JnV0bV9jb250ZW50PXRpbWVmcmFtZXNfMTc= ).
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An interesting pattern in recent convos
ali@aliabdaal.com5/17/2026
Hey gang,
Quick thing before we start - we're currently hiring for a few
key roles within the business. Firstly, we're looking for a
growth co-founder for our software studio. This is an incredibly
important role as we look to build and grow our software ventures
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); secondly, we're looking for a YouTube Producer for my channel
which is an in-person role and we're open to helping with
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we'll be in touch if we think you'd be a fit.
Anyway, on with the email and it’s been an interesting week. I
was in Malaga, Spain for my friend and software co-founder
Pablo’s bachelor party. And then I decided to head over to London
for a few days to hang out with the fam, see the birth of my new
niece, and host/attend various work-themed events. It’s been an
awesome few days, although in that time, our daughter seems to
have started to actually walk - when I left a week ago, she was
able to take a couple of steps, but now she can walk for metres
at a time! Man, they grow up so fast.
Anyway, I’d like to tell you about an interesting moment that
happened while I was checking in to my flight from London
Heathrow back to Hong Kong. I’d checked in online, but headed
over to the counter to check-in some bags. The air host chap on
the other side of the counter recognised me, and thanked me for
the videos I’ve made over the years.
Firstly, that was pretty cool - always nice when that sort of
thing happens. Never would’ve thought this would happen to me
back when i started making YouTube videos back in 2017, but hey
ho.
But secondly, he came up to me after I checked in, and he said:
“Mr Abdaal, is it okay if I ask you a question?”
Because I’m a nice chap, I said “of course”… but now that I’m
writing this I should’ve said “actually, it’s DOCTOR Abdaal”.
Just kidding.
Anyway, this is how the convo went:
Him: I know this is kind of intense… but do you have any advice
for me about how I can find my purpose?
Me: Ahhhh haha that’s a big question…
Him: I know, and I’m sorry if it’s wasting your time, but I’ve
really enjoyed your videos and… I don’t know, I just feel a bit
lost right now… I’m not really sure what my purpose is… I mean, I
enjoy my work (serving passengers etc) but it’s not as fulfilling
as I’d like… I think if I find what I’m really meant to do then
I’d be happier…
Me: You know… there’s one question I always come back to whenever
this thought crosses my own mind: what would you do if you didn’t
care about money?
Him: Errrr… you know, that’s a really good question, I’ve never
really thought about it…
Me: Yeah it’s a good one to think about. Like, imagine you’ve won
the lottery, you’ve got $100m in the bank, you don’t need to
worry about money ever again. BUT you have to do SOMETHING that
helps people in SOME way… you wouldn’t just do nothing, because
then you’d end up depressed and suicidal if you didn’t have
anything to do… so you’ve got to do SOMETHING that helps people
in SOME way… ever thought about what that might be?
Him: Damn… yeah I’ve never thought about that…
Me: It’s worth thinking about. With me for example, I had a
period of about 6 months actually, last year (2025), where for
the first half of the year, I really felt at a bit of a loss
about what I was doing with my life. My daughter had been born,
which was great, but on the work front, I wasn’t sure I was fully
fulfilled… I kept sort of thinking “do I really want to be doing
these YouTube videos anymore…”
Him: Haha it’s funny to hear you say that, from the outside it
looks like you’ve made it, you’ve got everything together…
Me: Haha yeah I guess it often seems that way, but on the inside,
for like 6 months, I was really confused about what I actually
want to be doing with my life… so I sort-of sat with that
question of: “What would I do if I didn’t care about making
money”… and after like 6 months, I landed on: “You know… I really
want to build my own business school…” and so that’s what I did.
From August last year, I decided to build this online business
school thing, and that’s been super fun and fulfilling. I don’t
know if it’s my “life’s purpose”, because that’ll probably change
over time, but for this season of life right now, I genuinely
wake up in the morning excited to work on that mission. But it
took me like 6 months of sitting with that question to land on
it.
Him: Whoahhhh okay that’s really great to hear, thank you so
much, I’ll definitely have a think about that. I’ve taken up
enough of your time, please enjoy your flight :)
And that was that. Fun conversation, very polite chap, suffering
from “what the hell should I do with my life”… which tbh is
probably the question that I get from 50% of people I speak to
these days.
It’s interesting… I’ll give a talk about productivity, or time
management, or how to become a creator, or how to build a
business… and when people come up to me afterwards, 50% of the
time the questions are about the specific thing I spoke about…
but the other 50% of the time, the questions basically converge
on: “Help me figure out what to do with my life”.
I don’t feel like I’ve got it cracked, but that question of:
“What would you do if you didn’t care about the money” is always
my favourite starting point.
So I’m curious: if you got to the end of the email… what would
you do if you didn’t care about the money? Please hit reply and
let me know :)
Have a great week!
Ali xx
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What’s my life’s purpose?
ali@aliabdaal.com5/11/2026
Hey friends,
Quick thing before we get started - on Monday 4th May (which is
today/tomorrow depending on when you’re reading this), I’m
hosting a live Zoom workshop (
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) all about how to come up with a decent business idea. If you’ve
been thinking about someday starting your own business as a
vehicle to get you closer to financial & time freedom, but you’ve
been held back by The Ideas Problem (either not having the right
idea, or having too many ideas and not knowing which to pick),
you’ll hopefully get a lot of value and clarity from the workshop
(
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Anyway, a few weeks ago, I was eating a bowl of Sichuan chilli
noodles and had a thought about work.
Specifically, I noticed that a few of our Lifestyle Business
Academy students were making the same mistake around getting
their first sales, and I had the instinct: we should do a
workshop on this.
On its own, that’s a pretty neutral thought - it was a mild
realisation and a mild plan. But because I was eating
aggressively spicy (and numbing) noodles, the thought arrived
tinged with the anxiety of the spice, so instead of “oh cool, let
me schedule a workshop”, it was more like: “argh we’ve got all
these students who are struggling, argh they must think our
curriculum is terrible, argh they’re going to burn out and
disengage and then they’ll decide LBA is a waste of money and
tell all their friends and then…” - you get the idea.
The thought itself wasn’t anxious, it was the famous Sichuan
chilli making me anxious and the thought just got caught in the
crossfire.
Since then, I’ve been paying attention to this pattern - I’ve
noticed it over the years (and written about it occasionally in
this newsletter) but now I see it almost every day. When I think
about something while needing a wee, every thought gets tinged
with a frantic urgency, like “arghhh I need to solve this right
now”, even if it’s something that doesn’t need solving until next
month. When my tummy’s a bit off from last night’s takeaway,
those same thoughts take on a sinking-feeling-in-the-stomach
despairing quality: “this is probably hopeless, nothing’s going
to work, why are we even trying.” But when I think about the
exact same things while I’m feeling calm and rested and
physically fine, suddenly they feel manageable / interesting /
like thinking about a video game, even though the thought itself
is identical.
This has led me to the realisation: I really can’t trust my own
thoughts and feelings at face value, because they’re so
influenced by what’s happening in my gut, my tongue, and my
bladder at any given moment.
The Buddhist take on this, which I’ve bumped into across various
books and meditation apps, is that thoughts and feelings are
apparently merely appearances in awareness, like clouds passing
overhead, patterns of energy that arise and dissolve and have
nothing particularly to do with you… so don’t take them too
personally. It’s a nice framing but as someone who’s not yet an
enlightened Zen master, it’s hard to actually internalise. When
the anxious work / life thought arrives, “this is merely a cloud
of energy arising in consciousness” isn’t my first instinct.
What I find more useful is to think: A thought is just a data
point, and that data point is often contaminated by whatever
physical sensation happens to be around at the time.
So when the worried thought arrives alongside a mouthful of
numbing (yet somehow still very spicy) Sichuan chilli, I can
catch it and think: “aaaah, this thought has been spiked, the
actual signal is “I should run a workshop”, and the doom spiral
is just the noodles”.
The obvious counter to all this is that sometimes thoughts and
feelings ARE worth listening to and you can’t just dismiss
everything. Fair point - if I’m doing a business review and I
feel a sinking sensation while looking at the numbers, and the
thought arises “I think our profitability is slipping”, that’s
obviously worth paying attention to. The thought is directly
relevant to what I’m doing, and the sensation is probably
pointing at something legit. But if that same thought arises
while I’m on a run, or in the sauna, or at dinner with Izzy & the
baby, it’s not particularly useful there. I can mentally note it
down as a “gut feeling to revisit Monday morning” and let it go.
Sitting with the anxious churn doesn’t make the profitability any
better, it just makes the experience of dinner significantly
worse.
So now, when a (particular negative) thought arrives with extra
emotional charge, especially when I’m in the middle of something
completely unrelated, I try and remind myself to do a quick scan:
is there a physical sensation (eg: spice, bladder, bowel, or
anything else) colouring this right now? More often than not,
there is, and that’s usually enough to take the sting out of it.
Have a great week!
Ali xx
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An epiphany while eating chilli noodles...
ali@aliabdaal.com5/3/2026
Hey friends,
Quick thing before today’s issue: we’re hiring! We’ve got various
roles open on the team, some remote and some in-person in Hong
Kong - including Client Success Director for our Lifestyle
Business Academy, and CREATIVE DIRECTOR for my YouTube channel :)
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). And we’re offering a $1k USD reward if you refer the person we
end up hiring for each role, so if you’ve got any friends who
might be interested, please let them know too 😉
Anyway, this week I’ve been thinking a lot about the question:
“Do you feel like you’re playing in the main round, or in the
bonus round?”
This is what my friend James asked me while we were hanging out
in a spa, in the jacuzzi, after a sauna and cold plunge session
(not kidding).
James is a cardiology fellow in New York visiting Hong Kong for a
few days. We went to school together, started our first business
(the med school admissions courses business, back in 2012)
together. Our paths were pretty similar: same secondary school,
good grades, dabbling with entrepreneurship in our teenage years.
We both went to fancy med schools, graduated, and then worked for
2 years in the UK as junior doctors. Then our paths diverged. As
you may know, I took a break from Medicine to explore
entrepreneurship full-time. James, meanwhile, took the USMLE and
decided to move to the US to do his internal medicine residency
in New York, and chose to specialise in cardiology.
Anyway, in the spa, one topic that came up was the “stress” of
our work. Neither of us particularly like the word “stress”… so
we operationalised it with: “How often do you have worries,
concerns or anxieties about work-related stuff during the
weekends and evenings when you’re not in work-mode?”
Interestingly, both our answers were “all the time”. This
surprised both of us.
I was surprised that James worries about work outside of the
hospital. I was under the impression that one of the nice parts
of Medicine is that once you’re out of the hospital, you can
switch off, because you’ve “handed over” to the next person on
the shift, and plus, there’s not much you can do for your
patients when you’re at home and they’re in the hospital, right?
James said that this might be true for the real “clock in, clock
out” specialities especially when you’re junior … but that at his
level in cardiology, he was in fact responsible for patients, and
often worrying about them. Plus, especially in the US, where
there are electronic patient record systems and now apps,
patients can actually message you at any time, and you can look
at their vitals and results from your phone. So if there’s a
problem, or if your patient messages you, you’re sort of expected
to respond, even outside of work hours, even when you’re not
physically in the hospital. On top of that patient-related
“stress”, there’s always more you could be doing to boost your
CV, get more publications, get more publications in fancier
journals, start a medical tech startup (which everyone seems to
be doing these days), work more with AI, and so on. So it was far
from a “clock in, clock out” situation. Hence why he (and almost
every other doctor he knew) had varying degrees of baseline
“stress” from “thinking and worrying about work even when you’re
not at work”. Makes sense.
Then he asked me how often I “worry” about work stuff when I’m
not working… and I too replied: “All the time”. This surprised
him.
So he asked the question: “Do you feel like you’re still playing
in the main round? Or do you feel like you’ve already completed
the main round, and now it’s the bonus round, where everything’s
just a bonus from here?”
I was like whoahhhhhh that’s a great question, and one that I’d
never heard before. I thought I’d come across all the different
mindset shift questions and journaling prompts, but clearly there
was more.
I said: “huh that’s a really good question… it still definitely
feels like I’m playing in the main round… like, my mind often
goes to things like how do we sustain views on the youtube
channel, how do we make our lifestyle business academy really
good, how do we keep on top of the AI stuff, how do i make sure
the team’s happy and healthy and thriving, what if projects XYZ
don’t work out…”
He said (paraphrasing): “I’m surprised you’re still worried about
those things… haven’t you already like, made it? You’re
financially free right? You could stop working and be fine…”
Me: “Well, sort of… we’d have to downgrade our lifestyle for
sure, but yeah we could do that if we wanted to or needed to…”
Him: “So then, what’s stopping you from acting as if you’ve
already won the main game, and now everything’s a bonus from
here?”
Me: “Whoahhhhh… that’s some good stuff…”
We riffed on this idea a bit more, and realised that the Bonus
Round Mindset didn’t have to come from a particular net-worth or
financial-freedom target.
I’ve got a few friends who have beaten cancer, for example. There
was a good chance they could’ve died, but things worked out, and
all of them have said some variation of: “surviving cancer made
me realise that I’ve been given another chance, a bonus round at
life, and so I worry about stuff a lot less now, and I focus on
enjoying life”.
I have another friend who seems to have genuinely absorbed the
idea that: “the chances of me being alive on this planet are so
infinitesimally small… for me to be here, the exact right
combination of ancestors had to have gotten together for hundreds
of generations… given that, this life is a gift, and I’m going to
focus on enjoying myself and not worrying too much about stuff”.
It seems to me that this is all pointing to the general Bonus
Round Mindset… the idea that we can choose to act as if we’re no
longer in the struggle for survival and status and security. We
can choose to act as if the fact of us being alive and (more or
less) healthy means we’ve ALREADY won the game. So all there’s
left to do is enjoy ourselves…
So this is a new experiment I’ve been running since the convo
with James (and probably need to remind myself of repeatedly):
How would I feel if I treated life as a gift, and work as a
“bonus” rather than a battle for survival?
Sort of reminds me of this Kapil Gupta quote:
Perhaps the greatest realization we can have is that we are free
to do whatever we wish. But in order to remain in this freedom,
we must discard the notion of significance. My friend, there was
a day that you were not here. And there will soon be a day when
you are no longer here. And once you realize this, you will
understand that all there is left to do is play.
Have a great week!
Ali xx
PS: Huge thank you to everyone for the nice messages about our
hacking situation. And apologies to the various people who
pointed it out that I probably used the phrase “Russian hackers”
a few too many times.
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The Bonus Round Mindset
ali@aliabdaal.com4/19/2026
Hey friends,
Hope your Easter’s been better than ours 😢
On Friday, we got hacked by (what we think are) Russian crypto
scammers. They targeted our website (aliabdaal.com) and our email
list, and exploited a vulnerability in a third-party plugin to
send 3 emails to our email list promoting a scammy “crypto token
drop”.
We realised what was happening within a few minutes, and locked
down our email and website systems to prevent further damage. And
we’ve spent the past few days working with our website and email
service providers to figure out what happened and stop it from
happening again.
In this email, I’ll talk you through the details of what we know,
what we’ve done about it, and what it means for you.
-------------
What happened
-------------
On 3 April 2026, we discovered that an unauthorised third party
gained access to the server hosting aliabdaal.com (
https://844e968a.click.kit-mail3.com/wvuwkmkp73sghk6vn0ds7hnz48rx2t8h4lw6v/dphehmue69gn2xsl/aHR0cDovL2FsaWFiZGFhbC5jb20=
), by exploiting a vulnerability in a third-party plugin we were
using. The attacker was able to access our website's backend
systems, including the connection between our site and our email
platform. They used this access to send 3 scam emails to our
mailing list promoting a fake cryptocurrency "airdrop" - some of
you may have gotten one of these emails, or they (hopefully)
ended up in your spam folders.
-----------------------------
What information was affected
-----------------------------
Based on our investigation, we believe the attacker likely had
access to subscriber information held on our mailing list. This
includes your email address, and if you provided it, your first
name. It may also include metadata such as when you subscribed
and which topics you signed up for (eg: productivity, creator
stuff, business topics).
We have no evidence that passwords, payment details, or any
financial information were accessed - we don’t store this type of
data on our mailing list. In fact, we don’t store payment
information anywhere: that’s all held securely by Stripe with
bank-grade security, rather than being on our own servers.
---------------
What we've done
---------------
As soon as we discovered the breach (within a few minutes of the
first email being sent), we took the following steps:
* Took the website offline and removed the attacker's access and
all malicious code from our server, including completely removing
the integration with our email provider
* Revoked all API credentials and security keys
* Forced password resets for all website accounts
* Disconnected and re-secured our email platform integration
* Engaged with our email service provider to investigate the full
extent of access to subscriber data
We’ve now reported the incident to the UK Information
Commissioner's Office (ICO), completed a full security audit of
our systems, and begun migrating to a new, hardened hosting
environment.
------------------
What you should do
------------------
If you got a suspicious email from us on or around 3rd April -
particularly one mentioning a cryptocurrency airdrop, token
claim, or asking you to connect a wallet - please do not click
any links in it. Delete it ideally. If you did interact with any
links or connect a cryptocurrency wallet, please check your
crypto wallet for unauthorised transactions immediately.
Beyond that, as a precaution, please be wary of any follow-up
emails that reference this incident and ask you to click links or
provide information - we’ll never ask for passwords or financial
details by email, nor will we ever promote a cryptocurrency offer
like this via email (or any other means).
–
You've been kind enough to let me send emails straight to your
inbox, and I don't take that lightly. Having random (but
annoyingly quite sophisticated) Russian hackers abuse that trust
and use it to try to scam you is genuinely awful, and I'm sorry
it happened. We caught it within minutes, we've done a full
audit, and we're rebuilding our entire web infrastructure to make
sure it can't happen again.
Thanks for your patience while we sort it. Hope the rest of your
week involves zero Russian hackers 🙂
Ali xx
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ICYMI: An Update on Friday's Emails
ali@aliabdaal.com4/7/2026
Hey friends,
Hope your Easter’s been better than ours 😢
On Friday, we got hacked by (what we think are) Russian crypto
scammers. They targeted our website (aliabdaal.com) and our email
list, and exploited a vulnerability in a third-party plugin to
send 3 emails to our email list promoting a scammy “crypto token
drop”.
We realised what was happening within a few minutes, and locked
down our email and website systems to prevent further damage. And
we’ve spent the past few days working with our website and email
service providers to figure out what happened and stop it from
happening again.
In this email, I’ll talk you through the details of what we know,
what we’ve done about it, and what it means for you.
-------------
What happened
-------------
On 3 April 2026, we discovered that an unauthorised third party
gained access to the server hosting aliabdaal.com (
https://844e968a.click.kit-mail3.com/r8ux9g9o5nfoh3zv37za2hdn9g05ob7hmo436/6qhehoulr8d0voi9/aHR0cDovL2FsaWFiZGFhbC5jb20=
), by exploiting a vulnerability in a third-party plugin we were
using. The attacker was able to access our website's backend
systems, including the connection between our site and our email
platform. They used this access to send 3 scam emails to our
mailing list promoting a fake cryptocurrency "airdrop" - some of
you may have gotten one of these emails, or they (hopefully)
ended up in your spam folders.
-----------------------------
What information was affected
-----------------------------
Based on our investigation, we believe the attacker likely had
access to subscriber information held on our mailing list. This
includes your email address, and if you provided it, your first
name. It may also include metadata such as when you subscribed
and which topics you signed up for (eg: productivity, creator
stuff, business topics).
We have no evidence that passwords, payment details, or any
financial information were accessed - we don’t store this type of
data on our mailing list. In fact, we don’t store payment
information anywhere: that’s all held securely by Stripe with
bank-grade security, rather than being on our own servers.
---------------
What we've done
---------------
As soon as we discovered the breach (within a few minutes of the
first email being sent), we took the following steps:
* Took the website offline and removed the attacker's access and
all malicious code from our server, including completely removing
the integration with our email provider
* Revoked all API credentials and security keys
* Forced password resets for all website accounts
* Disconnected and re-secured our email platform integration
* Engaged with our email service provider to investigate the full
extent of access to subscriber data
We’ve now reported the incident to the UK Information
Commissioner's Office (ICO), completed a full security audit of
our systems, and begun migrating to a new, hardened hosting
environment.
------------------
What you should do
------------------
If you got a suspicious email from us on or around 3rd April -
particularly one mentioning a cryptocurrency airdrop, token
claim, or asking you to connect a wallet - please do not click
any links in it. Delete it ideally. If you did interact with any
links or connect a cryptocurrency wallet, please check your
crypto wallet for unauthorised transactions immediately.
Beyond that, as a precaution, please be wary of any follow-up
emails that reference this incident and ask you to click links or
provide information - we’ll never ask for passwords or financial
details by email, nor will we ever promote a cryptocurrency offer
like this via email (or any other means).
–
You've been kind enough to let me send emails straight to your
inbox, and I don't take that lightly. Having random (but
annoyingly quite sophisticated) Russian hackers abuse that trust
and use it to try to scam you is genuinely awful, and I'm sorry
it happened. We caught it within minutes, we've done a full
audit, and we're rebuilding our entire web infrastructure to make
sure it can't happen again.
Thanks for your patience while we sort it. Hope the rest of your
week involves zero Russian hackers 🙂
Ali xx
PS: If you have any questions or concerns, please feel free to
reach out to data@aliabdaal.com (
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An Update on Friday's Emails
ali@aliabdaal.com4/6/2026
Hey ,
You may have just received an email apparently from me with the
subject line “Solana Creator Token (Free Airdrop)”.
Please ignore this message and do not click on any links within
the email.
This was not sent by us and we're actively investigating.
Very sorry for the inconvenience and appreciate your
understanding.
Ali
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Hey friends,
Quick thing before we start - we’re looking to hire a Growth /
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alternate universe where our heroes defeat Voldemort in book 7…
but… okay you know how in the “proper” / “canon” Deathly Hallows,
there’s the Battle of Hogwarts at the end and basically all the
good guys (minus a few sad exceptions) survive and live happily
ever after… well, in this fan fiction, the good guys do still
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and so they attempt to travel back in time 7 years to fix things.
To defeat Voldemort without all the sacrifices. So they travel
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their memories and skills, and that’s the premise. It’s really
really well done, it’s really clever, it handles time travel in a
really interesting way, I loved it and couldn’t put it down for
weeks.
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approach to entrepreneurship, which has very much inspired my own
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business doesn’t need to be this huge massive thing that’s always
growing and that takes over your life. It can totally be a
small(ish) thing that you enjoy working on, with a small team of
people you like hanging out with, building cool product(s) for a
small(ish) number of customers who get a lot for value from
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Have a great week!
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My Favourite Things - Feb 2026 Edition
ali@aliabdaal.com2/22/2026
Hey friends,
It’s been a couple of weeks since I’ve sent an issue of this
newsletter. Feels like I need to come up with an interesting
insight or something and these days with life settling into a
“regular” rhythm it feels like I’m having insights about life a
lot less than I used to. I guess a few years ago, I’d spend all
my spare time reading personal development books, and learning
all these new things about how to manage my time, how to change
my mindset, how to approach business building. These days, I
don’t spend much of my spare time reading personal development
books… instead, I finish work by 6:30pm, hang out with my wife
and baby, go for a run, then spend the evening on the sofa
reading Harry Potter Fan Fiction while my wife watches
Bridgerton.
With this sort of pedestrian life setup, I often get to the
weekend thinking: “hmm I should kinda be writing an issue of
LifeNotes… but I feel like I just don’t have anything useful or
interesting to share lol”
I guess I always have interesting things to say about business
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Anyway, with those lamentations aside, there is something I did
want to share this week. Not sure how useful or interesting it is
but oh well...
One of the things you learn in meditation is becoming more aware
of your own thoughts and feelings. When you’re meditating, you
“observe” your thoughts, feelings and sensations, and then… don’t
do anything at all. You just “observe” that a thought or feeling
arises, and sit there as the “passive witnessing”, and then
observe as it passes.
I’m not particularly consistent with my meditation practice but
I’ve done it enough over the years on-and-off to have gotten
better at recognising my own thoughts and feelings as I go
through day-to-day life, and generally doing a good job of not
getting “caught up” in them.
At least that’s what I thought. Until I caught myself many times
in the past few weeks feeling… dissatisfied for some reason.
Here’s what tended to happen: it’s an evening, I’m hanging with
the wife +/- baby (depending on what time it is), reading some
Harry Potter Fan Fiction. We start getting ready for bed. I use
the toilet, turn on my phone, check Slack and see a bunch of
notifications for work-themed stuff, with various things that
need my input, or that seem to be going wrong, or that could be
optimised. I then think “cool, all that can wait until tomorrow”,
and start getting ready for bed. But as I’m getting ready for
bed, I feel a subtle undercurrent of… dissatisfaction… colouring
my mood, and my experience of the moment. It’s like an internal
“buzzing” of sorts… and then I think “huh, why do I feel weirdly
discontent even though life is awesome”, and I examine the
feeling, and realise that there’s a subtle energy of “uh oh the
business is going to crumble, we gotta hustle harder” beneath it.
And then I’m like “huh that’s interesting, even though I thought
I put the Slack messages out of my mind, they’re actually still
there under the surface, and they seem to have triggered this
pattern of energy that’s fearful and anxious about whether the
business is going to die”. And then I’m like: “huh that’s
interesting…” and then I sort-of “smile” at the feeling, in a
“thank you for looking out for me, we don’t need to worry about
this right now” and focus on enjoying the peace and serenity of
getting ready for bed.
I realised recently that I’ve been telling myself a story of “I’m
pretty good at not getting caught up in my thoughts and feelings”
that’s only partly true. Yes I was good at noticing the loud,
obvious stuff, but the lower-level anxiety that was presenting as
a hum of background noise was still totally there, I just wasn’t
aware of it. My friend Alok said once that meditation is like
peeling back the layers of an onion - there are always more
layers. Guess I’ll have to do more meditation to find more and
more of these layers.
The more I’ve noticed this feeling, the more I’ve realised how
often it’s there, this persistent, low-level hum of “there are
Problems to solve in the business, we should Figure Them Out”.
But all it takes for the spell to break (at least temporarily) is
to just notice it’s there.
If any of this resonates, I’d love to know. What’s been your
experience of the subtle buzz of dissatisfaction? Feel free to
hit reply and let me know :)
Have a great week!
Ali xx
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The subtle buzz of dissatisfaction
ali@aliabdaal.com2/15/2026
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episode tell me) was that I kept the project a secret from my
team for 6 months…not because I didn’t trust them obviously, but
because I’ve hopefully (finally) learned an important lesson
about running a business (that I think also applies to our
personal lives): that a business, once established, is more
likely to die of overeating than of starvation.
I watched an interview where Jeff Bezos (founder of Amazon) was
talking about this (paraphrased):
I’m an ideas guy - if you put me in front of a whiteboard and I
can come up with 100 ideas in half an hour. But early in Amazon’s
history, Jeff Wilke (one of my executives and mentors) came up to
me and said: “Jeff, you have enough ideas per minute, per day,
per week, to destroy Amazon”. And this was such a shocking idea
for me… I said: “What do you mean?” He said: “You have to release
the work at the right rate that the organisation can accept it”.
Wilke explained that every time I released a new idea, I was
creating a backlog, a queue, of work in process, and because it
was just stacking up, it was adding no value. In fact, it was
creating distraction. And so Wilke said: “You have to figure out
when to release the ideas at a rate that the organisation can
accept”. And this sounds so obvious, but it wasn’t obvious to me
at the time. And this was a profound insight for me: so I started
prioritising ideas better, keeping a list of them, keeping them
to myself, until the organisation was ready for the ideas.
When I heard this, it immediately resonated. Our business is
obviously way smaller than Amazon, but even at our scale (with
around 15 team members), I’ve been guilty of this exact thing:
throwing ideas into the business at a faster rate than the
organisation can handle them.
In the early days of the business and YouTube channel, I could
pivot on a whim. New video series? Great let’s try it tomorrow.
Launch a brand new course? Easy, we can do that in a week. Switch
website platforms? Sure why not. The cost of a failed experiment
was basically zero.
But now our expenses are $2m+ per year, with team salaries making
up the bulk of that. We have people whose livelihoods depend on
executing well on the things we’ve already committed to. If I get
onto a team Zoom meeting and say “Hey, I’ve got this exciting new
idea for an online business school!”, suddenly everyone’s focus
shifts. The other projects get deprioritised, energy gets
scattered, the stuff we’re already doing starts to suffer. Even
if I preface it with “but this is just an idea at this stage
guys, don’t worry about it, I’m just throwing it out there for a
discussion”, it’s way too easy for the team to think: “okay but
what does that mean for all the stuff we’re already doing… wait a
minute, maybe we shouldn’t be investing in project X or Y because
this new thing seems to be exciting”. This is all well and good
if we end up actually pursuing the new thing, but I’ve often
changed my mind on exciting new ideas just as fast as I’ve
suggested them to the team, which creates “organisational
whiplash” and is a total nightmare to deal with (or so I’m told
when I ask team members to give me feedback…)
Maybe this is something you can relate to if you’ve ever had a
manager or a boss who considers themselves “an ideas guy” - they
have dozens of new ideas every month, but end up sticking to very
few of them, which means you end up wasting a tonne of time,
energy and mental bandwidth changing direction. Not fun.
So anyway, this time with this online business school thing, I
tried my best to NOT introduce the idea to the team until I felt
(a) I was solid in actually wanting to do it, and (b) I’d spoken
to a bunch of friends and mentors about it, and (c) we’d
validated it with a lower-lift experiment. This ended up taking
like 9 months: around September 2024 was when I was chatting to
one of my mentors, Olly, and said: “hey I think I really want to
build an online business school”. Then a few months passed, I
noodled on the idea a bit, I signed up to some online courses
from other people doing similar things to see if I was still
interested in it, I tried out some YouTube videos talking about
“how to build an online business” to see if it would be fun. Last
summer, we also ran a “$1k Challenge” as an experiment: a 6-week
bootcamp that would help people earn their first $1,000 online.
That turned out to be quite fun to run, and students got a lot of
value out of it, so it was good validation for the idea that
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But there’s another thing I’ve noticed especially in the new
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goals etc… we get our journals out, decide to learn Spanish,
decide to start a podcast, decide to go to the gym more
regularly, run a marathon, do a hyrox (whatever that means), read
50 books this year, and so much more.
And then we wonder why, by February, we feel overwhelmed and
haven’t made meaningful progress towards any of these goals.
Just like a business (even one at the scale of Amazon) can only
work on a finite number of things at once, the same is true for
us as individuals. Our time, energy, focus, attention and
motivation are all finite resources. And trying to do lots of
things in parallel is often a recipe for burnout and overwhelm.
So the same Bezos principle applies to our personal lives:
instead of introducing new goals and habits into your life at an
overwhelming rate, it’s probably better to drip-feed new ideas at
a rate that we can actually handle sustainably.
I’ve started asking myself a question whenever I feel the urge to
start something new: “What am I already doing that this would
compete with?”
Every new commitment takes bandwidth. And bandwidth is finite. So
if I’m honest with myself, I can only really make meaningful
progress on 1-3 things at any given time. Maybe less lol. This is
why I often preach the idea of setting a primary “Quarterly
Quest” for work and for life - the ONE THING, in each of these
areas, that if you did in the next 90 days, would have the
biggest impact.
If you’ve read this far in this email, you’re probably like me -
lots of ideas, lots of things you want to work on, very
good-looking etc. The problem with people like us is that rather
than screwing up our lives due to laziness and sloth, we’re
actually much more likely to burn ourselves into the ground
through ambition, lack of balance, and a failure to show
restraint when setting goals.
Have a great week!
Ali xx
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My biggest mistake with goal-setting...
ali@aliabdaal.com1/18/2026
Hey friends,
Last week we hosted Spark 2026, our free annual workshop where me
and some guest speakers walked participants through reflecting on
2025, figuring out where there life’s going, and setting goals
for 2026. Big thank you to everyone who attended: I had a great
time running it, and I hope you got some value out of it :)
The event was very focused around Goals. So this week’s email is
going to be about Goals. But before we get started, I’d like to
talk about a video game.
You see, the other day I was reclining on the couch playing God
of War (2018) on the PS5. I’m a few hours into the game, and I
found myself at a crossroads (literally and metaphorically). I
could choose to row my boat LEFT, and progress the main
storyline. Or I could choose to row my boat RIGHT, and do a side
quest that seemed interesting but that wouldn’t progress the main
story.
I noticed my default thought process was: “well, we’ve gotta go
LEFT, because that’ll get us moving through the storyline
faster”. But then I stopped and noticed that thought. I was like:
“hmm that’s interesting… I’m playing a video game here… why do I
feel the need to play it efficiently? Why did my first thought go
to: what’s the fastest way to progress through the game?”
After some thinking, I landed on the question: “What’s actually
the point of playing this video game?” And the answer came pretty
quickly: “The point is simply to enjoy the journey of playing
it”. There’s no cosmic significance to my playing God of War. It
isn’t an exercise in “self improvement”. The “points” or “levels”
I earn in the game have less than zero impact on my life. It’s
simply an arbitrary video game, I’m playing at an arbitrary
difficulty level (hard, but not ultra-hard), purely for the
purposes of passing the time doing something enjoyable.
So I decided to turn right, and take the more scenic route, doing
the side quest that had no bearing on the main storyline, but
enjoying myself, and playing in a relaxed fashion with the
attitude of “leaning back, relaxing and enjoying the challenge of
this arbitrary video game”.
The following morning, I was in the office with the team, and
working on some designs for our new productivity app (
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had available to work on it: just a few hours of deep work before
the next meeting, and then it’s lunchtime, and then my
afternoon’s packed with gym followed by a couple more meetings
with the dev team. I found myself approaching the designs with an
air of franticness, an air of feeling like I was running out of
time, and therefore had to make progress on this quickly.
But then I remembered the feeling when playing God of War. The
feeling of trying to do things “efficiently”. So I asked myself
that question again: “What’s actually the point of us building
this productivity app?”
Sure, if the app does well, it’ll mean more money for the
business. And sure, it would be cool to be building an app that
lots of people around the world use and enjoy that helps them
manage their time and achieve their goals. But in the grand
scheme of things… a few decades from now (if not way sooner), the
app will be forgotten. A few more decades from now (hopefully a
lot longer), me and the dev team will be dead, and no one will
particularly care about this app that we spent a few years
building in the 2020s on planet Earth. This app has zero cosmic
significance.
So what’s the point? I realised that much like a video game, the
point is primarily to “enjoy the experience of building this
thing”. If we build it well, it’ll hopefully have a little more
impact on our lives than literally spending those hours playing
more video games. But not that much more, on a cosmic scale. In
many ways, the journey of building an app is much like the
journey of playing a video game: it’s an arbitrary goal, with an
arbitrary level of difficulty (how complex and full-featured do
we want to make it?), played for the primary purpose of “building
something cool” and “enjoying the journey of building it”.
So I thought, “huh, if the point of building this app is actually
primarily to enjoy the journey of building this app, what if I
approached it like I approached playing God of War… what if
instead of approaching it with an attitude of franticness or
stress, I instead leaned back, relaxed, and enjoyed the
challenge?”
So I tried it. I took a breath, I leaned back, I relaxed, and I
remembered that building the app is an arbitrary video game,
where the primary goal is to simply enjoy the challenge. And you
know what… I had a great time. For the next few hours, I had my
Study with Me Spotify playlist playing through my headphones. I
took breaks every now and then to get a coffee and use the loo. I
chatted to the team a bit while waiting for Lovable to mock up
designs. And while approaching it in this “relaxed” fashion, I
made a load of progress, came up with a bunch of cool new ideas,
and felt great.
The very first chapter of Feel-Good Productivity (
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when we approach our work in the spirit of play, treating it with
a little more lightness than we’re used to, we actually become
more productive, more creative, and less stressed. AND on top of
that, the work ends up generating rather than draining our
energy.
But even though I’ve written that chapter, and I’ve seen
first-hand the benefits of taking a more “playful” approach to
work, I still find myself defaulting to the mode of “this is a
Serious Thing that Needs To Be Done Quickly and Productively and
Efficiently”. Over time, I’ve gotten better at catching myself
when I do this, and deliberately switching over to “play mode”.
But it still isn’t my default. I’d love for it to be, so that my
approach to practically every goal or project, in work and in
life, is to treat it with an attitude of lightness, ease and
sincerity, rather than Heaviness and Seriousness.
Zooming out even more, I’ve found myself wondering this: What if
every goal we’re working towards, in our work, our health, our
relationships, our home life… What if all those goals are
“merely” arbitrary video games, played on an arbitrary level of
difficulty, where the primary purpose is to enjoy the journey of
playing them?
What if… the journey is in fact, the destination?
Dammit, after all that, we’ve landed on a cliche.
Have a great week!
Ali xx
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What’s the point of goals?
ali@aliabdaal.com1/11/2026
Hey friends,
Happy New Year! Quick thing before we start - in case you haven’t
heard, I’m hosting a totally free 2-day workshop this weekend
(Sat and Sun 3rd + 4th January) called Spark 2026. It’s the 2nd
year we’re doing this: a free series of “Annual Planning, Goal
Setting and Reflection” workshops to help you make 2026 the best
year of your life :) 65,000 people registered so far from all
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Anyway, while I was lying in bed last night, I made the mistake
of clicking on a notification from Twitter/X. Can’t remember what
it was, but it was intriguing and I clicked on it. And then
without realising it, I found myself scrolling the feed for over
an hour. And it wasn’t just that I was scrolling for over an hour
- it was that I found myself feeling a sense of “falling behind”
while doing it.
My Instagram feed these days is quite wholesome: relationship
content, baby content, some desk setups, some music stuff, some
health stuff. Ie: broadly wholesome things I’m interested in. So
even though I try not to make a habit of it, I don’t feel too bad
when I scroll through Instagram.
But…my Twitter feed has none of that. Instead, it’s almost 100%
AI + tech startup stuff, with every other post talking about how
you’re falling behind if you’re not using Claude Code, or
Google’s new Antigravity, or this-or-that new app or model. And
how you’re falling behind if you’re not using these hot new
marketing tactics that so-and-so app used to get to $100m in
revenue in just 6 months! Or how if you’re an entrepreneur and
you haven’t yet replaced your entire team with AI agents, wtf are
you even doing. And so on.
I started seeing some of these while scrolling and initially, I
was like: “ooh maybe I DO need to try out this specific Claude
Code workflow to boost my productivity”. But then I saw another.
And another. And more. And before I knew it - instead of seeing
any individual post as a source of inspiration, I fell into the
“doom scroll” of continuing to scroll, not getting any
inspiration or motivation from it, and instead feeling a sense of
dread that I was truly falling behind and that my business is
going to crumble around me.
Now, I like to think of myself as more enlightened than to fall
into this trap. It’s just… so basic. I’m supposed to be a
productivity expert for goodness sake. It’s such basic-ass advice
to (a) not have your phone next to you in bed, (b) to block
social media apps after 9pm, and (c) even if you do feel like
scrolling, make sure you’re being intentional about it and
actually getting value that’s improving your life.
For many years, I didn’t have my phone next to my bedside. For
many years, I had app blocking active after 9pm. But then… one of
the apps stopped working a few months ago, and I didn’t bother
figuring out why. I thought: “meh I can totally control myself, I
don’t need this stuff”. And then, I left my extra phone charger
behind somewhere while travelling, and thought: “you know what, I
don’t need to charge my phone in a different room, I can totally
charge it on my bedside table, I’m not one of those degenerates
that needs to put these systems in place to NOT use my phone for
goodness sake”.
And so thanks to my hubris of thinking that me as a sole
individual can reliably beat the thousands of well-paid engineers
working for social media companies, who’s literal job it is to
hijack my brain into continuing to scroll… thanks to me thinking
I was above it all, I ended up wasting time and energy, and also
feeling bad about my life, at midnight last night.
So consider this email a (semi) public commitment that:
* I’m setting up app blocking again (on Superfocus (
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* My phone will charge on my desk in a separate room overnight,
rather than on my bedside table. I’m going back to having the
only device on my nightstand be my Kindle.
If you’d like to join me in doing these sorts of drastic actions,
you’re very welcome to.
Have a great week!
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Quick question before we finish today’s email: If your salary and
rent were covered for an entire year, what would you actually do
with that time?
Not in a fantasy or “winning the lottery” kinda way, but
genuinely, what’s the one thing that you’d finally give yourself
permission to try? Start a YouTube channel? Build an online
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quite find the time for?
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