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​ ( https://0b7c27a1.click.kit-mail3.com/zlu5d27vkxhnhkxo6qgiphwl04ww7h6h9x9pg/58hvh7hgx4m5e6b6/aHR0cHM6Ly9hcnRodXJicm9va3MuY29tLw== )​ Dear friends, Happy Easter to all who celebrated it this past Sunday and will continue all through the octave. I hope you got a lot of chocolate eggs in your basket, as well as those marshmallow Peeps that we all say are gross, but secretly love. Some of my happiest memories are of Easter mornings as a child, gorging myself on refined sugar before heading off to church. That is, until my health-conscious mom (who baked all our bread, kept us on a vegetarian diet six days a week, canned our vegetables, and made us take brewer’s yeast pills) put her foot down and decided our Easter baskets would henceforth contain sunflower seeds and a block of cheese. No, I’m not kidding. Yes, I am still bitter. From my column this week Every week, I go deeper on the science of happiness over at The Free Press. This week's topic is “Don’t Waste Your Suffering.” Why do we suffer, and how do the bad times facilitate meaning? And, paradoxically, why do our attempts at eliminating suffering backfire so terribly? I explore those questions in this week’s column, which also happens to be an excerpt from The Meaning of Your Life ( https://0b7c27a1.click.kit-mail3.com/zlu5d27vkxhnhkxo6qgiphwl04ww7h6h9x9pg/25h2hoh39q275qs3/aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuYXJ0aHVyYnJvb2tzLmNvbS90aGUtbWVhbmluZy1vZi15b3VyLWxpZmU= ). Read the full column here ( https://0b7c27a1.click.kit-mail3.com/zlu5d27vkxhnhkxo6qgiphwl04ww7h6h9x9pg/9qhzhnhdweppkkt9/aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cudGhlZnAuY29tL3AvYXJ0aHVyLWJyb29rcy1kb250LXdhc3RlLXlvdXItc3VmZmVyaW5n ). Free Press subscribers get immediate access; if you’re not subscribed yet ( https://0b7c27a1.click.kit-mail3.com/zlu5d27vkxhnhkxo6qgiphwl04ww7h6h9x9pg/n2hohvhvql33wxa6/aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cudGhlZnAuY29tL2FjY291bnQ= ), it’s worth it. A huge thanks to all of you who picked up a copy of my new book The Meaning of Your Life ( https://0b7c27a1.click.kit-mail3.com/zlu5d27vkxhnhkxo6qgiphwl04ww7h6h9x9pg/25h2hoh39q275qs3/aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuYXJ0aHVyYnJvb2tzLmNvbS90aGUtbWVhbmluZy1vZi15b3VyLWxpZmU= ). I’m delighted to report that it debuted at #1 on the New York Times bestseller list. This book was years in the making, and I’m glad that so many people are enjoying it. If you haven’t already, please do feel free to pick up copies ( https://0b7c27a1.click.kit-mail3.com/zlu5d27vkxhnhkxo6qgiphwl04ww7h6h9x9pg/25h2hoh39q275qs3/aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuYXJ0aHVyYnJvb2tzLmNvbS90aGUtbWVhbmluZy1vZi15b3VyLWxpZmU= ) for yourself and a few thousand of your closest friends. In the media for the book, I recorded a lot of fun podcasts with interesting people. For example, a few days ago, I sat down with Trevor Noah on his show What Now? At the beginning of a fantastic and fun conversation, he asked me, “Are we happy yet?” My honest answer was that most people don’t actually know. Not because we haven’t thought about it, but because we don’t know how to measure it, or if it is possible to measure at all. It turns out happiness is measurable. If you follow my work, you’ll be familiar with what I believe is the best definition of happiness: Happiness = Enjoyment + Satisfaction + Meaning For a good measure of this, which gives a comparison with others in the population and a breakdown across the three “macronutrients,” you can take this test ( https://0b7c27a1.click.kit-mail3.com/zlu5d27vkxhnhkxo6qgiphwl04ww7h6h9x9pg/48hvhehml7rrz9tx/aHR0cHM6Ly9sZWFybi5hcnRodXJicm9va3MuY29tL3RoZS1oYXBwaW5lc3Mtc2NhbGU= ) on my website. You’re probably well aware that the globe is in the midst of an unhappiness epidemic. Lots of people have their opinion as to why, but I believe the deepest culprit is a crisis of that last macronutrient, meaning. That’s a big problem, which is why it is the focus of my new book. The first step in acquiring more meaning is knowing where you stand. How much meaning do you have in your life? And are you searching for it? You can take the Meaning in Life Questionnaire ( https://0b7c27a1.click.kit-mail3.com/zlu5d27vkxhnhkxo6qgiphwl04ww7h6h9x9pg/reh8hohmdo009es2/aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuYXJ0aHVyYnJvb2tzLmNvbS9xdWl6L21lYW5pbmctaW4tbGlmZQ== ) on my website, too—it’s completely free, and you’ll receive results immediately. This survey was created by academics twenty years ago and has been used widely by researchers ever since. Upon completion, you’ll be placed into one of four profiles of my own creation: * Relentless Seeker: You have a lot of meaning, but are actively searching for more * Happy Homebody: You’ve found meaning, and aren’t searching anymore * Hopeful Wanderer: You haven’t found meaning yet, but you’re looking hard * Lost in Place: You haven’t found meaning yet, and don’t know where to look Knowing your profile is an excellent first step on your adventure toward finding meaning in life. In upcoming issues, which I’ll deliver weekly on Fridays, this is the type of content you can expect: distilled, actionable material to help you on your journey. See you next week, Arthur ( https://0b7c27a1.click.kit-mail3.com/zlu5d27vkxhnhkxo6qgiphwl04ww7h6h9x9pg/58hvh7hgx4m5e6b6/aHR0cHM6Ly9hcnRodXJicm9va3MuY29tLw== ) P.S. If you want to hear me explain the full framework in a more irreverent setting than I’m usually in, Trevor Noah and I covered all of it, plus failure, embarrassing moments, and why happiness is messier than we want it to be on What Now? 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​ ( https://0b7c27a1.click.kit-mail3.com/5qumrw3z2pu7hn2vrm7t6h9lqgg3oanh343p2/8ghqhohodn35gosk/aHR0cHM6Ly9hcnRodXJicm9va3MuY29tLw== )​ Hi Friend, Welcome back. This newsletter is coming straight from me again, and I couldn’t be happier to have this direct line to you. You may have received some of my work recently through The Free Press, where I’ve loved reaching new readers. But this newsletter has always been something different: a focused, weekly dispatch on the ideas and practices I believe can genuinely make your life better. (And once a month, a few details of my trials and tribulations as a road warrior.) My column this week in The Free Press was “Why Your Neighbor Became a Conspiracy Theorist. And Maybe You, Too.” It digs into what attracts people to conspiracy beliefs. I’m generally skeptical of what everyone seems to be saying and thinking—whether it’s the mainstream view or a conspiracy theory. Instead, I put my trust in the 19th-century American philosopher Ralph Waldo Emerson, whose work for me is like a cool glass of water on a hot summer’s day. Perhaps his greatest essay is “Self-Reliance,” written in 1841. Try these choice nuggets from that essay for some key lessons for good living. “Whoso would be a man must be a nonconformist,” Emerson wrote. Even if you’re inclined to agree with the conventional wisdom, you should still be a skeptic, he believed. Think and act independently, because to embrace the wisdom of any party or clique is to put on a “prison-uniform.” Emerson did not mean doing everything for yourself, such as growing all your food or removing your own appendix. He meant making choices about your life and welfare based on independent beliefs and convictions—and avoiding cultural fads and ideological panics. So don’t conform; question everything. Of course, that means sometimes you’ll be wrong—so be willing to change your mind and own it. This is hard: People hate to appear inconsistent because they’re afraid of appearing weak or unserious, even hypocritical. Emerson dismissed this fear with one of his essay’s most famous lines: “A foolish consistency is the hobgoblin of little minds, adored by little statesmen and philosophers and divines.” He thought that you should say what you believe to be true today without apology, whether or not that matches what you said yesterday. A modern way of following this advice is to refuse to participate in ideologically polarized culture, especially online. Changing your mind openly is an important form of being honest, and complete honesty is crucial. You can make your own decisions and form your own beliefs only “by speaking the truth,” a matter so serious that he calls it “the state of war.” Before you dismiss this as hyperbolic, consider how much lying and appeasement is involved in taking the path of least resistance in life. To be truly self-reliant, you must have the courage to stand up to this placatory impulse. Emerson’s big takeaway: Think for yourself. Amen to that. *************** Personal Update *************** This is launch week for my brand-new book, The Meaning of Your Life: Finding Purpose in an Age of Emptiness ( https://0b7c27a1.click.kit-mail3.com/5qumrw3z2pu7hn2vrm7t6h9lqgg3oanh343p2/l2hehmhl274kori6/aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuYXJ0aHVyYnJvb2tzLmNvbS90aGUtbWVhbmluZy1vZi15b3VyLWxpZmU= ). Do treat yourself to a copy, and maybe pick one for someone you love who’s feeling a bit lost. The book tour will consume my spring, so I will soon be feeling a bit lost myself, at least geographically. The routine starts with a week of media appearances in New York. I joined the anchors of CBS Mornings (where I am a contributor) for a few days, and did a lot of other television and radio interviews. Here I am talking to the wrong camera. Oops. In New York, I make sure to stay in a hotel with a beautiful view to lift my spirits. Behold the majesty of Mother Nature! Sometimes, the green room is comfortable. Sometimes, it’s more like a cell. Here I am comfortably relaxing in the latter, before a hit. I may be gone from home but at least my roommates can see me on TV. Next week starts the travel: Florida, California, Georgia, South Carolina, Utah, Tennessee, Pennsylvania, New Jersey; and always, plenty more New York. See you in the TSA line! Love, ( https://0b7c27a1.click.kit-mail3.com/5qumrw3z2pu7hn2vrm7t6h9lqgg3oanh343p2/8ghqhohodn35gosk/aHR0cHM6Ly9hcnRodXJicm9va3MuY29tLw== ) Arthur P.S. Now that my book is out, let me invite you to join our virtual membership ( https://0b7c27a1.click.kit-mail3.com/5qumrw3z2pu7hn2vrm7t6h9lqgg3oanh343p2/dpheh0he6nk7qdtm/aHR0cHM6Ly9odWIuYXJ0aHVyYnJvb2tzLmNvbS90aGUtbWVhbmluZy1tZW1iZXJzaGlw ) to dig deeper on the concepts covered in The Meaning of Your Life. You’ll get monthly live training and a Q&A with me, unlimited access to my new “Ask Arthur” AI tool so that you can get answers to your questions at any time (it’s like having me talking to you at 3am—which is weird), curated readings, and more. If you choose the six-month option, you’ll receive two months for free—plus a one-time code for The Happiness Scale, my own research-backed assessment of your happiness. Our first live session is coming up on April 17. We’ll be discussing purpose, and how to define your personal baseline for meaning and build the foundational habits that make everything else possible. I hope to see you there! 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